Teaching Kids Media Discernment

Introduction:

Last week, we talked about how the media influences kids. It influences & maps out reality for kids and it shapes the behavior of our kids. The media is most likely the most criticized force in today’s youth culture. But it most likely the most misunderstood. We can live a God honoring life in a media-saturated world. Here’s how:

I.  Focus on the Message, not the delivery system.

A.        Walt Mueller: It is important to differentiate between the media’s vehicle & content.

1.          We should help teens evaluate the message in the media.

B.        We need to teach our kids to use media that points them toward God, rather than away from God.  See 1 Tim. 4:11

II. We must evaluate everything biblically.

A.        The bible is the measuring stick for everything we see and hear.

1.          Informed & regular study of God’s word can yield specific and help guidance on what to celebrate & enjoy, and what to avoid.

B.        Phil. 4:8 is a good passage upon which to base our biblical worldview.

C.         We need to be prepared to make decisions about the media we evaluate.

1.          Does it have value for personal entertainment & enjoyment?

2.         Does it draw you closer to Christ & Christian values?

3.          Does it contradict what God has said is right and lead a person away from Christ.

D.        Parents…we also need to teach our kids how to make good judgments for themselves.

E.         Teens: you need to understand that offering guidance & direction is the job of your parents.  See Eph. 6:4b.

III. We must examine ourselves.

A.        Parents …what are we doing personally to guide them through the maze of media & music? How can we be successful?

B.        Pray.

C.         Know where God stands & plant yourself in the same place.

D.        Watch your step.

1.          How much time do I sit in front of the TV?

2.         What shows do I watch?

3.          What kind of music do you listen to?

4.         Romans 14:22 – Be consistent.

IV. Be Proactive.

A.        We must develop some media guidelines & learn to say no.

B.        Some suggested media guidelines:

1.          Limit the number of media outlets in their bedrooms.

2.         Decide how long the TV will be on in your home each day.

3.          Spend viewing time together.

4.         Develop standards on specific shows, themes, and program content that will and will not be a part of the media menu in your home.

5.          Don’t be afraid to say no.

Conclusion:

A.        How has the world of media affected your attitudes, values & behaviors?

B.        We must never underestimate the power of media to mold & shape us.